Well, I'm going to interrupt all my posts in my drafts waiting to be published to announce the arrival of Benaiah Seth Morgan born Tuesday November 4th at 10:50 pm (I was told it was when Obama was giving his acceptance speech). He weighed 8 lbs 2 oz, was 20 in long and his head was 14 in.
The Birth Story
He came quite quickly into the world when he finally decided to come. I was just sure he was going to come while Chris was in the field the two weeks before, or on Halloween, but he waited. My sister & bro-in-law even came up on the 1st & 2nd, hoping he would make an appearance, but no such luck.
I woke up on Tuesday, wondering if our baby would make an appearance the day things changed for the nation. At around 10:30 I lost my mucous plug. I knew I couldn't be too excited because labor could still be a few days away. When contractions didn't come and didn't come, I started to resign myself that baby probably wouldn't make it into the world that day. Around 3:30 that afternoon we were heading to run some errands before Bible Study, and I started having contractions 10 minutes apart. After an hour they went away, so I figured I was just having false labor again, and we decided to proceed with Bible Study. Then at 6, I started having contractions every 10 minutes, then every 9, then by the time Chris started teaching at 7:30, they were every 8 minutes, and I would have to leave and go into our room to work through each one. Bible Study ended at 8:45, and by then my contractions were every 6-7 minutes, so I called Jennifer, our midwife. We said goodbye to the last people at 9:15, then mom & Chris scurried into action making sure our house was ready for a birth. Chris was scrubbing the tub, mom was making our bed with plastic backed, "ruinable" sheets, and I was continuing to work through contractions that were getting more intense. They were also calling those who wanted to be here: Sarah (my sis-in-law) from Galveston, Galyn from San Antonio, and Chris's mom from Temple. Galyn had called earlier that evening and I told her that I thought it would be tonight. I told her not to come until after I had called the midwife b/c I expected to take another 4-5 hours, just cuz John took 15 hours of labor before he came out.
Jennifer arrived at 9:45, and at 9:50 I hopped in our tub.
I lost track of time from then on. I know I had a few more contractions, our neighbor Kirsten arrived, the midwife apprentice arrived, and all of a sudden I was ready to push. Before I pushed, Jennifer asked me to check to see if I could feel the baby's head. I felt the bag of water pushing out. The first push the water exploded. It was the strangest sensation I had ever felt.
My water breaking onto Chris's foot! Thus the crazy expression he is wearing.
My water broke with John, and it felt like a water balloon had exploded, but this was different, like a fire hydrant was opened and let loose. This was followed by another contraction. I remember saying something like "I'm not ready. I need a little longer break in between baby." Thankfully on that contraction I didn't feel the urge to push and it subsided quickly. With the next contraction I felt this tremendous urge to push and I felt baby's head come out, and then his shoulders and body. I was expecting to push a few more times before our baby came into the world. Chris announced it was a boy, and it was 10:50 pm.
He's finally here!
Chris's mom walked in right after they laid Benaiah on my belly. We called Sarah and told her to turn around (she was only in N. Houston), and called Galyn. She had already made it to Georgetown, so she continued on her way.
Ben's placenta continued pulsing for half an hour, so we just stayed in the tub cuddling until I pushed the placenta out and it had stopped pulsing enough to cut the cord. Then Ben went to the grandmas and I got out of the tub and to our bed.
I was so excited. I didn't scream in pain this time. I didn't pass out. I even found out I barely tore. I told Chris later that if all my labors were like that, I wouldn't mind having a bunch more kids.
Glad everything went smoothly!
Ben was weighed and measured and checked out, and then he was able to nurse. He had no trouble latching on, something it took John a few weeks to figure out.
Actually getting to really look at him, as he was facing everybody else until I got out of the tub!!
Right before the midwives left at 1:30, I started feeling really tired and apparently started looking white and like I was going to pass out. Galyn and Chris convinced me that I would feel better with an IV. I think I would have been fine, just needed to sleep but I let them (Galyn) start an IV. It took Ben awhile to fall asleep. He nursed 3 times and then decided he was done exploring the new world for the moment and fell asleep at 4:00 giving us a precious four hours of sleep!
And now we begin the joys of parenting two!!
7 comments:
I started reading some of this, but couldn't. I'm one of your queezy readers. I'm just glad that you didn't put the picture on here that was on Chris' Facebook. I almost barfed at my desk.
But anyway....
He's beautiful! So happy for you guys . And I want to know if I'm the only one who thinks Ben looks like your dad?! (o: He's definitely got a ton of Senecal genes!
Congratulations! We are so excited for you! He is beautiful, and we are still hoping to meet Ben and see all of you after Thanksgiving.
I'm so happy for you guys!!! I was able to read & look at everything:) I'm so proud of you, Rachel.
Yay...Yay...Yay!!! I've been looking forward to a new post from you!! Sarah told me about his birth, then I saw the pictures from Chris' facebook page...including the placenta...very interesting that that thing keeps our babies alive and healthy!! Sounds like you had a great labor...if those two words can be put together!! So, how rough has it been with the two of them?? Those early days are the ones that scare me the most!!! Then, like you mentioned...having to be ever aware of what big brother is up too....with the first one you could put them on a blanket in the middle of the floor and know that they are fine...with the 2nd, if you did that...who knows what you might find!!! So precious!! I would love to hear the stories...good and bad about having to sweet little boys so close in age!! Congrats and enjoy your boys!!
YAY!
Jennifer, I TOTALLY think he looks like a mini-Mr. Senecal!
Rach, way to go!!! We love ya'll so, so much :)
Another note: Rachel, we'd love to get together with your boys. I totally understand about the driving with 2 boys...it's tough! What are you guys needing for your new baby boy?
you are indeed one of the craziest, bravest, most courageous people i know! :-) i love your birth story and was able to read the entire thing without batting an eye (motherhood will do that to you, i guess) :-) thanks for sharing every detail!! i want to see these pics on chris' facebook that everyone's talking about.....
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